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The Imperfect Art of Traveling While Parenting 

3/4/2017

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​When I was a kid, I spent most summers with my relatives in northern Michigan.  They lived in a charming old town, where visitors admired the ornate Victorian houses, and enjoyed the stores and restaurants along the town’s main street. But one of my favorite things to do was, well, a little different.

I’d casually stroll behind the dress stores and the ice cream parlor, and then, like a detective, I’d stake out decaying things that I could photograph. I was fascinated by rusted fire escapes and the sprawling weeds that snaked between striped concrete parking barriers. I felt like there was something innately beautiful in these things that most people didn’t notice, or would rather change or destroy. I loved trying to make the beauty show through in those photographs. Later, when I learned about the Japanese concept of wabi-sabi, the art of finding beauty in imperfection, it felt like an old friend.
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I hadn’t consciously thought about wabi-sabi in quite a while. But this past month, my kids and I took two road trips. Long hours in the car gave me opportunities to notice how hard the parent-child relationship could feel sometimes, with its misunderstandings and disappointments. And I also saw how the unexpected surprises that are part of any journey added to that strain.
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But then I thought about those photos from my childhood, and I realized that there are times when looking at the hard parts of parenting is a lot like seeing those weeds and rusting fire escapes—the beauty is there, we just need to shift the way we’re looking at something. I saw that there are many times each day when a good dose of wabi-sabi vision can buoy traveling families. In relationships, wabi-sabi helps us look beyond what we think we know. It helps us maintain a sense of humor and learn to ask good questions. Here’s a handy chart to get you thinking about how you can look at travel-parenting moments in a Wabi-Sabi kind of way:
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​Even if you aren’t traveling with children, wabi-sabi can serve you. Think of all the things that can frustrate us as travelers: delayed planes, cultural misunderstandings, ATM machines that won’t accept our cards, needing to leave a place when we’d rather stay….

No matter where we find ourselves in the world, each of our days has aspects that seem mundane. Noticing the beauty in small interactions, simple tasks, and ordinary moments can help us add richness to our lives.
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​How has a wabi-sabi mindset enhanced your travels?
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What's Your Travel Re-Entry Story?

1/13/2017

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After time abroad, how do you make sense of your experience? What helps you move forward in the best possible way? For me, it usually helps if I slow down and treat myself kindly while I process my experience and adjust to the new (or to the old, as the case may be...)

Learn the story of my re-entry after 10 years abroad, and then register to join me and 20 other travel visionaries for a free week-long "Relaunch! Virtual Re-Entry Retreat" January 23 - 27, 2010. We'll help you make the most of your re-entry and brainstorm your future travels, career, and much more!
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Start the Next Phase of Your Amazing Global Life

1/12/2017

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​Whether you were traveling, volunteering, or studying, did your experience abroad change you in ways you never could have imagined? Now's the time to launch the next phase of your amazing global life.

Join me and 20 other travel visionaries to plan your travels, career, and more with the Relaunch Virtual Re-Entry Retreat from January 23 - 27, 2017. During this free, week-long series of webinars, you'll interact with creative, dynamic world-changers while you explore the meaning of your time abroad, plan future travels, brainstorm your next career move, and much more. To register, click here.


If you'd like a FREE Transformative Travel Coaching Session with me, plus unlimited access to the week's webinars and over $1000 worth of books, webinars, resume critiques, blogging tools, and much more, upgrade to the Retreat's All Access Pass for only $87 dollars! 
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What Travel Brings

1/5/2017

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In the 13th century, the Persian poet Rumi said, "Travel brings power and love back into your life." Most of Rumi’s journeys would have been on foot.  They would have taken time. I like to think of him, smiling to himself, wandering fields and dusty roads and deep forests, poems moving through his mind like sunlight dappling the trees.

When he writes of power, I think he means “power to” as opposed to “power over.” Travel, with all its unexpected experiences, sights, tastes, new relationships, and opportunities to know ourselves in different ways, can renew us at our core. It can power us up so that what is most important to us shines through us more brightly than it did before.

And when we are powered up, we love more easily. We love better.

For Rumi, this kind of travel was a practice. It took time, and it took being fully present to what he was experiencing. Today, given the great ease and speed with which we move from place to place, it takes a deliberate decision to travel like Rumi. It’s easier today to float on the surface of experience, puddle-jumping from one thing to another, without truly letting experience impact us.
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In this new year, what kind of traveler will you be?  
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Join Me on the RELAUNCH! Virtual Re-entry Retreat

11/20/2016

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​I'm delighted to be part of Small Planet Studio's upcoming virtual summit: "RELAUNCH! A Virtual Re-entry Retreat for Global Adventurers Who Don't Want the Adventure to End."
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From January 23rd - 27th, Cate Brubaker, along with myself and 20 other travel visionaries will offer you lively virtual interviews, jam-packed with tools, resources, and perspective to help you:
  • process your most recent re-entry experience,
  • decide on your next global adventure,
  • relaunch your career,
  • and use re-entry to tell your unique story.
Be part of the magic. Click here to join us and RELAUNCH!
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    Hi, I'm Deidra

    To me, transformative travel means traveling in a way that connects you to places and people in a profound way., being real and present with what is happening while you travel and recognizing the impact travel has on your life beyond your journeys.                                                                
    I believe that transformative travel is a catalyst for an increasingly vibrant, fulfilling, globally good life--for you and for those you encounter through your travels and in your daily life.

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